How to Deliver Romance in a Way That Speaks to Their Heart
When love’s in the air (or on the calendar), it’s time for flowers. Valentine’s Day, birthdays, anniversaries… these are moments made for floral magic. But here’s the thing: It’s not just about what you give, it’s how you give it. Choosing the perfect blossoms (maybe red roses, maybe stems from your first trip together) is just part one. Part two? Presentation! A well-timed surprise or personal element can turn flowers into a full-blown love story. At Conklyn’s Florist in Alexandria, Virginia, we believe romance should feel as unique as you two do. Gary Chapman’s love languages? Yes, please. Hobbies woven into the presentation? Even better. We love helping you create a gesture that hits home.
A Clean House, Homemade Dinner, & Flowers on the Table
If your partner’s love language is acts of service and their romance style is practical to a tee, you already know: thoughtful actions = the key to their heart. To that end, treat them to this: the chores are done, dinner is handled, and a vase of fresh flowers greets them at the door. That combo says “I love you” in a language they speak fluently. They’ll swoon at the blooms, but knowing the evening’s theirs to enjoy, with you close by? That’s everything, no grand speech needed. Just a cozy, low-key night full of intention and warmth.
Pair Sweet Stems with a Sweet Love Note
If your partner feels most loved through acts of appreciation and words of affirmation, now’s the time to let it all out, on paper. From little yet genuine compliments to deep, heartfelt thoughts from your soul, your words have serious power. Take a moment to write something honest and sweet, then pair it with a fresh bouquet for extra impact. Whether it’s a tiny note or a longer letter, what matters is that it’s from you. Bonus: we’ve got a few ready-to-go ideas if you need a little bit of help getting started.
Plan a Grand Delivery to Their Workplace
Some of the most memorable flower deliveries happen right in the middle of real life, not on holidays, but on any ordinary day. Picture their face when a bouquet shows up at work, cutting through emails and endless meetings. It’s your way of saying, “Pause, breathe, you’re loved.” For someone whose love style leans emotional or gift-based, that gesture is literally everything. It’s uplifting, unexpected, and gives them a story they’ll happily retell every time someone compliments their beautiful flowers. They’ll think of you each time the fragrance drifts their way.
Celebrate Shared Fitness Activities with Thoughtful Blooms
For the partner who feels closest when you doing things together, actions really do speak louder. Join them for a game of pickleball, hit the dance floor with them, or take a scenic hike and lean into the shared experience. You’ll bond, laugh, and understand what makes them tick a little more. Then, sweeten the day with flowers waiting for them at the house, in the center console, or right by the court. A note saying, “It really is better together,” plus sunny sunflowers, keeps that playful, high-energy feeling going strong long after the day is over.
Subscribe to a Monthly Delivery
The love language that prioritizes receiving gifts is more about meaning than material things, which is why flowers fit perfectly. Even if they’re somewhat tricky to shop for, a monthly bouquet is a guaranteed soft spot in their schedule. You can “say” different things with every arrangement: bright, confident colors, gentle neutrals, or moody jewel tones. Each delivery feels like a little celebration of them. Plus, flowers are experiential; they change the energy of a room, lift their spirits, and trigger all those cozy, feel-good brain waves whenever they catch sight of them.
If you take anything from this guide, let it be this: romance doesn’t have to be complicated to be unforgettable. A thoughtful plan, a little intention, and a gorgeous bouquet from Conklyn’s Florist are more than enough to make your person feel wildly, wonderfully cherished today, tomorrow, and beyond.
Romance Style/Love Language
Types of Flowers
Gifts/Activities to Pair with Flowers
Practical/Acts of Service
Beautiful orchids
Surprise them with a home-cooked meal and a clean house
Appreciation/Words of Affirmation
Timeless roses
Write a love note describing all the things you appreciate about them
Emotional Support
Uplifting gerbera daisies
Send flowers to the office and make them smile during an exhausting or stressful work day
Experiences/Quality Time
Energetic sunflowers
Join them on a hike, at the pickleball court, on a bike ride, or at a dance class